Our Ancestors Wildest Dreams: Intro

We can’t afford to wait for the world to be equal to start feeling seen. Michelle Obama In a system built to destroy you, joy is rebellion! My family arrived in a post-apartheid South Africa from a war torn Democratic Republic of Congo and the one thing I can always remember from those early years… Continue reading Our Ancestors Wildest Dreams: Intro

Arvo at Selfridges

I was 17 when I first stepped into Selfridges. Fresh faced and not as wise as I am now, I was a couple of weeks into my degree in London when I walked into the most magical place on Earth. My first purchase was a paid of £80 thigh highs boots that I definitely did… Continue reading Arvo at Selfridges

2020, Let’s Do This!

Hello beautiful people. It's the start of a new year. I'm still on holiday so I am in a great mood. It's not that I hate my job, in fact I consider myself extremely lucky to have such a healthy work environment, however more time with the love of my life is always welcome. I've… Continue reading 2020, Let’s Do This!

Pregnant or Fat?

I’m going through a crappy period with my weight and it’s hard not to get down on myself, especially when everyone keeps asking if I’m pregnant 🤰🏽 I’m not, I’ve just gained weight. I’m on a solid reset plan that involves zero sugar and mostly veg. So far so good, BUT it’s tough. I looked… Continue reading Pregnant or Fat?

Mind The Gap…Long Distance Relationships

Soul mates are not here solely to fulfill your rom-com fantasies. Most are here as teachers. And to help you see where you have given your power away or where you are not being authentic. Maryam Hasnaa After spending some time with my bestie, instead of crying on the journey back to South Africa, I… Continue reading Mind The Gap…Long Distance Relationships

New year, new you. Do YOU boo!

I'm 4 days late BUT I think I've just made it just in time for a 'new year, new me' post. If you need a new year for it to be a ‘new you’ then take it. In the words of popular blogger Maya Washington, ‘do you boo!’ A new year is often times the… Continue reading New year, new you. Do YOU boo!

Everything, Everything

I’ve been itching to write this post from the minute I left Cape Town. If ever there was a time I wish time machines were real, this trip is it! There isn't a single moment of this trip that wasn't perfect and filled with so many beautiful memories that will last a lifetime. This trip… Continue reading Everything, Everything

(Bathtime) Friends With Benefits

As I took the picture for this post, a few thoughts went through my mind: 1. I hope I don’t drop my book in the water. The cover kinda looks waterproof though 😂 should be fine. 2. I’ve already got a bath bomb in the water, can’t drop this one in! Plus it’s ‘Golden Wonder’… Continue reading (Bathtime) Friends With Benefits

So Will I

One of my dear friends Eunice, sent me the link to the song ‘So Will I,’ by Hillsong worship. I had seen this on social media, a lot of my friends go to Hillsong so the title was not a surprise to me. I was standing in front of my workplace, waiting for the video… Continue reading So Will I

In pursuit of happiness. ..

Happiness. If I had to ask you what it means to be happy or what happiness is, what would you define it as? Is happiness a dress size, a new job or even a new partner? The dictionary defines happiness as 'prosperity or a state of well-being and contentment.' For a long time my definition… Continue reading In pursuit of happiness. ..