Pregnant or Fat?

I’m going through a crappy period with my weight and it’s hard not to get down on myself, especially when everyone keeps asking if I’m pregnant 🤰🏽 I’m not, I’ve just gained weight. I’m on a solid reset plan that involves zero sugar and mostly veg. So far so good, BUT it’s tough. I looked… Continue reading Pregnant or Fat?

It’s easy to hear the voices of others and often very difficult to hear your own. Every person you meet is going to want something different from you. The question is: what do you want for yourself? Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter

Unexpectedly Grateful

In a few weeks 2019 will be done and dusted and we will be entering a new decade. When you look back at the last ten years of your life, what marks those years? Were they tough, knocking the wind out of you at each turn? Or was it a decade marked with growth? The… Continue reading Unexpectedly Grateful

Wonderfully Made

My sister got so many cute shots of me fake-eating ice cream 🍦 that I MUST use them all. So here we go, adding some depth to a picture that does not have much to do with the content of this post. A couple of years ago, you would have had to pay me good… Continue reading Wonderfully Made

Start Again

For what it’s worth: it’s never too late or, in my case, too early to be whoever you want to be. There’s no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope… Continue reading Start Again

When Everything Looks Okay, But Isn’t

From the outset, I had already decided that 2017 would be amazing and it already is! My prayer for you today and for your 2017 is that God would pull you closer into Him, no matter what you have been through, I pray that He would restore joy, internal and external peace, as well as… Continue reading When Everything Looks Okay, But Isn’t

You Grow Girl!

We've all heard the saying 'build the kind of life that you don't need a holiday from.' There is an aspect of truth to it, however just because I love my job, it doesn't mean I don't want another holiday...or two! I am 4 days into what seems to be the longest week ever already… Continue reading You Grow Girl!

Audit, Analyse, Attack!

Today is not a significant day. I am not celebrating any special occasion, it is not my birthday (sadly) but as I sit in front of my laptop, I am inspired by a quote I read recently on Twitter: If you aren’t seeing the progress in your life that you want, then take the initiative… Continue reading Audit, Analyse, Attack!

How Long, O Lord?

Over the last couple of weeks, as consistently as I can which in all honesty has been MEGA hard, I have been doing the Bible in One Year devotional. This year an area that I want to grow more in, is my spiritual walk and relationship with God. We've heard it so many times before… Continue reading How Long, O Lord?

Letters to All the (White) Boys I’ve Loved Before…

DISCLAIMER: I've used the featured image for this post in another post on this blog where I spoke about something else that girls with melanin often struggle with...hair. If you want that post click here and it'll open in a new tab for your reading pleasure! Growing up, I never thought much about race but… Continue reading Letters to All the (White) Boys I’ve Loved Before…